When you first gave birth to your child and the first couple of weeks were basically deadly, what did you do to cope? I know many people that have this issue where there husbands were out working all the time to get some extra cash while you were stuck at home left to do everything. Now that can get out of hand. Have you ever heard of doula services where someone can come to your house the first weeks of the baby being at home to help around the house? Well, this is a perfect solution for a lot of stay at home moms. Not only having a clean, safe and secure house, but the mom gets a break from time to time.